Great parenting starts with your own deconditioning (unlearning).

The Decondition Your Parenting Guide & Workbook will help you become the parent you’re here to be!

RECONNECT with parts of yourself that have been suppressed so you can honor your authentic energy and emotional process, make better decisions, have more harmonious relationships, AND help your child do the same!

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Does this sound familiar? 

You can see that the “normal” way of parenting and educating children in our culture is not healthy. And the ways we’re told that we “SHOULD” be, that we take to be true, and can easily default to in our parenting, just don’t feel right or actually work!

  • You try and try to do things the way you’re “SUPPOSED” to, but end up angry, frustrated, bitter or disappointed with life.

  • Trying to “figure everything out” and “make things happen” is exhausting.

  • You want to parent DIFFERENTLY (than you were parented and/or from the mainstream), and want to let go of what didn’t serve you.

  • You wonder how to be the kind of parent who knows and supports their child’s unique gifts and STRENGTHS when you didn’t experience that as a child.

  • Maybe you see/feel the energetic and ideological SHIFTS happening in our culture and on the planet, and want to parent for a better future

  • You know the FUTURE demands confident, adaptable, grounded, imaginative, compassionate individuals who can make sound decisions, but you don’t feel that way yourself.

  • It’s easy to “lose” yourself when you become a parent, so you may feel like you need to “find” yourself.

  • You know that good parenting starts with YOU, and when we know better, we do better, but what is that?!

  • You’re OVERWHELMED by all the parenting information and advice out there — how do you know what’s right for you and your family?

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If you’re waiting for your child’s arrival…

  • You know that now is a great time for working on your SELF to heal negative patterns.

  • You’ve educated yourself about birth, but what about who you’ll BE as a parent?

  • You want to embody your TRUE self through the transformative power of birth and your parenting journey.

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If your child is already Earthside…

  • You wish you UNDERSTOOD your child’s emotions and reactions, as well as your own, and could minimize power struggles.

  • You wonder how your child can be so DIFFERENT from you or your other children.

  • What worked with your first child doesn’t work with this one. “WHY do they… or why won’t they…?”

  • What does your child REALLY need from you?

Imagine how it would feel to REALLY….

  • Start HEALING the ways you were conditioned as a child — the “shoulds” and where you learned you were “too much” — to parent in a more INTENTIONAL way.

  • Understand your own energetic blueprint can help you stay true to yourself through the SACRED TRANSFORMATION of becoming a parent.

  • Gain CONFIDENCE in your decision-making and ability to parent the way you desire.

  • Experience more EASE as you navigate your parenting journey.

  • Know you’ll be parenting in a way that your child will have LESS “conditioning” to work through when they’re older.

  • Envision and EMBODY a new version of yourself as a parent, without losing the parts of yourself that make you, YOU.

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The Decondition Your Parenting Guide & Workbook will get you there!
ONLY $27!


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“I couldn’t have survived those early weeks at home without Julie’s guidance, support, and helping hands. Thank you for everything!”

Kristen G., Boulder, CO


“You can see that everything about bringing Type and Strategy into the world, I’ve had to do this through adults, but it’s for children…. I don’t want to suggest that you don’t pay attention to the adults. As a matter of fact, it’s the only way you can save the children. But it’s about realizing what this knowledge is actually about. It is knowledge that you’re supposed to be able to give to your children when they come into the world. In other words, it’s foundation knowledge.” (emphasis added)

— Ra Uru Hu, founder and messenger of Human Design

Julie Behnken Early Parenting Guide

Julie Behnken, the owner of StarSong Postpartum and Beyond, believes that we can change the world through parenting our children and is no stranger when it comes to raising healthy, thriving children who embody their true selves. As a certified Early Childhood specialist with a Master's in women's studies, she combines Human Design with Waldorf-inspired parenting to help new parents consciously prepare for parenthood and meet their child’s unique needs. She owned and operated a home child care program for over a decade and has over 20 years of her own parenting skills, so she has a deep understanding of caring for little humans to help them grow from a solid foundation. Residing near scenic Boulder, Colorado with her partner, she is taking time to enjoy the simple joys in life like decadent dark chocolate and learning more about homesteading (#dreams).

In Human Design, Julie is a 2/4 sacral Manifesting Generator, and astrologically, she is a Cancer sun, Cancer rising, Taurus moon. She is the partner of an emotional Generator and triple Leo, and her young adult son is an emotional Projector with a Taurus sun, who also lives in Colorado.

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